I understand many things. Angles aren’t among them. When I say angles in the current context, I’m not referring to geometry where angles make sense and can be definitively measured and used to calculate finite outcomes. I’m talking about the angles some people seem intent upon identifying and leveraging to […]
Anxiety about Anxiety
Anxiety isn’t enjoyable. You can do breathing exercises and try to focus elsewhere, but there’s nothing that will make it enjoyable. So we should give up and be anxious, right? Wrong. We can embrace it and be anxious. The italics are for a reason. I’ll get to it. I promise. It’s what Odd Life Coaches […]
On Focusing….or Defocusing
We hear it at work. Focus. We tell our kids. Focus. We tell ourselves. Focus. The assertion is that if we focus, things will get easier, better, or go away. What if that’s not always the case though? What if the best thing we can do in some situations is […]